Bible School · Understanding Paul's letters · Class 30 of 33
Walk worthy: unity, new life, the household and the armour of God
Ephesians 4–6 · about 24 minutes · Walk worthy
By the end of this class you should be able to
- Explain how Ephesians 4-6 follows from chapters 1-3 and why the letter turns on the word 'therefore'.
- Describe the argument for unity and the gifts of the ascended Christ in 4:1-16.
- Trace the contrast of old and new life, darkness and light, in 4:17-5:21.
- Read the household instructions of 5:21-6:9, especially the picture of Christ and the church in 5:22-33.
- Describe the armour of God in 6:10-20 and its Old Testament background.
Read the passage
4As a prisoner in the Lord, then, I urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling you have received: 2with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, 3and with diligence to preserve the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace. 4There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; 5one Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all. 7Now to each one of us grace has been given according to the measure of the gift of Christ. 8This is why it says: “When He ascended on high, He led captives away, and gave gifts to men.” 9What does “He ascended” mean, except that He also descended to the lower parts of the earth? 10He who descended is the very One who ascended above all the heavens, in order to fill all things. 11And it was He who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers, 12to equip the saints for works of ministry and to build up the body of Christ, 13until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God, as we mature to the full measure of the stature of Christ. 14Then we will no longer be infants, tossed about by the waves and carried around by every wind of teaching and by the clever cunning of men in their deceitful scheming. 15Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into Christ Himself, who is the head. 16From Him the whole body, fitted and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love through the work of each individual part. 17So I tell you this, and insist on it in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking. 18They are darkened in their understanding and alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them due to the hardness of their hearts. 19Having lost all sense of shame, they have given themselves over to sensuality for the practice of every kind of impurity, with a craving for more. 20But this is not the way you came to know Christ. 21Surely you heard of Him and were taught in Him—in keeping with the truth that is in Jesus— 22to put off your former way of life, your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23to be renewed in the spirit of your minds; 24and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. 25Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one another. 26“Be angry, yet do not sin.” Do not let the sun set upon your anger, 27and do not give the devil a foothold. 28He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing good with his own hands, that he may have something to share with the one in need. 29Let no unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building up the one in need and bringing grace to those who listen. 30And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, in whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, outcry and slander, along with every form of malice. 32Be kind and tenderhearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.
Open Ephesians 4 in the reader (BSB)5Be imitators of God, therefore, as beloved children, 2and walk in love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us as a fragrant sacrificial offering to God. 3But among you, as is proper among the saints, there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed. 4Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk, or crude joking, which are out of character, but rather thanksgiving. 5For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure, or greedy person (that is, an idolater), has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God. 6Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things the wrath of God is coming on the sons of disobedience. 7Therefore do not be partakers with them. 8For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light, 9for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness, and truth. 10Test and prove what pleases the Lord. 11Have no fellowship with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. 12For it is shameful even to mention what the disobedient do in secret. 13But everything exposed by the light becomes visible, for everything that is illuminated becomes a light itself. 14So it is said: “Wake up, O sleeper, rise up from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.” 15Pay careful attention, then, to how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, 16redeeming the time, because the days are evil. 17Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord’s will is. 18Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to reckless indiscretion. Instead, be filled with the Spirit. 19Speak to one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your hearts to the Lord, 20always giving thanks to God the Father for everything in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ. 21Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, His body, of which He is the Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her 26to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to Himself as a glorious church, without stain or wrinkle or any such blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29Indeed, no one ever hated his own body, but he nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church. 30For we are members of His body. 31“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32This mystery is profound, but I am speaking about Christ and the church. 33Nevertheless, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
Open Ephesians 5 in the reader (BSB)6Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2“Honor your father and mother” (which is the first commandment with a promise), 3“that it may go well with you and that you may have a long life on the earth.” 4Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead, bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. 5Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear and sincerity of heart, just as you would obey Christ. 6And do this not only to please them while they are watching, but as servants of Christ, doing the will of God from your heart. 7Serve with good will, as to the Lord and not to men, 8because you know that the Lord will reward each one for whatever good he does, whether he is slave or free. 9And masters, do the same for your slaves. Give up your use of threats, because you know that He who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and there is no favoritism with Him. 10Finally, be strong in the Lord and in His mighty power. 11Put on the full armor of God, so that you can make your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this world’s darkness, and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 13Therefore take up the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you will be able to stand your ground, and having done everything, to stand. 14Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness arrayed, 15and with your feet fitted with the readiness of the gospel of peace. 16In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17And take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. 18Pray in the Spirit at all times, with every kind of prayer and petition. To this end, stay alert with all perseverance in your prayers for all the saints. 19Pray also for me, that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given me so that I will boldly make known the mystery of the gospel, 20for which I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I may proclaim it fearlessly, as I should. 21Tychicus, the beloved brother and faithful servant in the Lord, will tell you everything, so that you also may know about me and what I am doing. 22I have sent him to you for this very purpose, that you may know about us, and that he may encourage your hearts. 23Peace to the brothers and love with faith from God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. 24Grace to all who love our Lord Jesus Christ with an undying love.
Open Ephesians 6 in the reader (BSB)01Background
is the second half of the letter that Paul, a prisoner (; ), sent to Gentile believers, probably in the province of Asia centred on Ephesus.
- The first half () told what God has done in Christ: chosen, redeemed and united Jew and Gentile in one body.
- The second half asks how such a community is to live.
The background is the church's surroundings. Ephesus was a centre of the cult of Artemis, of magic () and of civic religion, and the Gentile believers had come from lives marked by what the letter calls the futility of their thinking (). Sexual immorality, anger, theft and drunkenness were commonplace, and the letter names them directly. The household, as in Colossians, was the basic unit of Roman society, and the instructions in - use a form familiar from the culture. They are closely parallel to , which has led many scholars to see a literary link between the two letters. Whether Paul wrote Ephesians himself or a follower did after him is debated, and the class reads the letter as Paul's (see the previous class). Tychicus carries it (), as he carried Colossians ().
The date, on the traditional view, is about AD 60-62 from Rome. If the letter was a circular for the churches of Asia, as some think from the manuscript evidence in , the practical commands would suit a group of congregations that shared a culture and its temptations.
02Outline
- Walk worthy: keep the unity of the Spirit
- Christ's gifts to the church and growth into maturity
- -Put off the old self, put on the new; imitate God in love
- Children of light: wise, filled with the Spirit, thankful
- -Household: wives and husbands, children and parents, slaves and masters
- Put on the whole armour of God
- Tychicus, and a final blessing
03How to read it
The letter turns at with 'therefore'. As in Colossians and Romans, Paul's pattern is that doctrine leads to life: the commands rest on what God has done. The word 'walk' (peripateo) governs this half, appearing at , , , and , and it organises the commands into five ways of walking: worthily, no longer as the Gentiles, in love, as children of light and carefully.
Paul's use of the Old Testament deserves attention. In 4:8 he quotes in a form that differs from the Hebrew, which has the victor 'receiving' gifts among men while Paul says he 'gave' gifts. Explanations include that Paul is following an interpretive tradition (some point to an Aramaic rendering of the psalm that reads 'gave') or that he is applying the sense of the psalm, in which a conqueror distributes spoils. In 6:10-17 the armour comes from and 11:5, where the LORD himself puts on righteousness and a helmet of salvation. The principle is to read Paul as applying those texts to Christ and the church, not as quoting them by chance.
The household section is the most debated. The rule here is to begin with the setting. Roman households were ordered under the head. Paul's version addresses everyone, not only the head, begins with a call for all to submit to one another in the fear of Christ (), and grounds the husband's role in the self-giving love of Christ. Readers disagree about whether he affirms the structure, reforms it, or begins to transform it, and the tradition note names the main views.
04What the text says
. Paul begs them to walk worthy of the calling to which they were called, with humility, gentleness and patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Then comes the sevenfold unity: one body and one Spirit, one hope, one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all. The unity is not created by the church; it is given and to be kept.
. Grace is given to each according to the measure of Christ's gift. Paul quotes Psalm 68:18: when he ascended on high he led a host of captives and gave gifts to men. The statement that he also descended to the lower parts of the earth is read in three ways: as the incarnation, as Christ's descent to the dead, or as his descent to earth in the Spirit at Pentecost. The ascended Christ gave apostles, prophets, evangelists, and shepherds and teachers (a single group in the Greek) to equip the saints for the work of ministry, to build up the body, until all attain unity of faith and knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of the fullness of Christ. Then they will no longer be tossed to and fro by waves of false teaching, but speaking the truth in love will grow up in every way into him who is the head, from whom the whole body, joined and held together, builds itself up in love as each part does its work.
-. They must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking, darkened in understanding, alienated from the life of God, hardened in heart. That is not the way they learned Christ. They were taught to put off the old self, corrupt through deceitful desires, to be renewed in the spirit of the mind, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness. Specific commands follow: speak truth, for we are members of one another; be angry but do not sin and do not let the sun go down on your anger; the thief must steal no more but work, so as to have something to share; no corrupting talk but what builds up; do not grieve the Holy Spirit, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Put away bitterness, be kind and forgiving as God in Christ forgave you, and be imitators of God, walking in love as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
. Sexual immorality, impurity and covetousness are not to be named among them. They were once darkness but now are light in the Lord; they are to walk as children of light and take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness. The call to the sleeper to wake, rise from the dead and receive Christ's light () is probably a fragment of an early hymn or baptismal song. They are to look carefully how they walk, making the best use of the time. Instead of being drunk with wine, they are to be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms, hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord, giving thanks always, and submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.
-. Wives are to submit to their own husbands as to the Lord, for the husband is head of the wife as Christ is head of the church. The word 'head' (kephale) is read as authority or as source, and the choice is argued in the tradition note. Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, to sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present her in splendour. Husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. Paul quotes about the two becoming one flesh and calls it a profound mystery that refers to Christ and the church. Children are to obey their parents in the Lord, citing the fifth commandment with its promise, and fathers are not to provoke their children but to bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. Slaves are to obey earthly masters with fear and trembling, as to Christ, doing the will of God from the heart. Masters are to treat them in the same way and stop threatening, knowing that their Master is in heaven and that there is no partiality with him.
. Paul calls them to be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. The struggle is not against flesh and blood but against rulers, authorities, cosmic powers over this present darkness and spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. They are to take up the whole armour of God: the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the shoes of readiness given by the gospel of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God. Of these only the sword attacks; the rest are defensive. Prayer in the Spirit at all times is joined to it, and Paul asks prayer for himself, an ambassador in chains, to speak boldly. The letter ends with Tychicus and a blessing of peace, love with faith, and grace.
05Key terms
- walk peripateo
- To go about, to conduct one's life. It organises this half of the letter (, 17; , 8, 15).
- fullness pleroma
- The full measure. The church grows to the fullness of Christ (), a theme begun in .
- head kephale
- Head. Christ is head of the body () and of the church (). Its sense in is debated: authority, source, or a union of both.
- submit hupotasso
- To arrange oneself under. In 5:21 all are to do it to one another, and the verb is carried into the following instructions.
- mystery musterion
- A hidden purpose now revealed. In 5:32 the union of man and woman points to Christ and the church.
- armour panoplia
- The full equipment of a heavy-armed soldier (, 13). Paul builds the picture from .
06In the whole Bible
Four doctrinal themes stand out.
- First, the unity and diversity of the church: one body, one Spirit, one Lord, and many gifts given by the ascended Christ.
- Second, sanctification: the new self is the believer's identity, and the specific commands about speech, anger, work and sexuality are the shape of that new self.
- Third, marriage as a picture of Christ and the church. Paul grounds the husband's love in what Christ did for the church, and gives the church's relation to Christ a pattern in marriage, while the Old Testament prophets had spoken of God as husband of his people (; ).
- Fourth, spiritual warfare. The struggle is against powers, the defences are the gifts of God, and the weapon is the word of God and prayer.
The Spirit's part in the church's life is stressed: the unity of the Spirit (), grieving the Spirit (), being filled with the Spirit () and the sword of the Spirit (). Pentecostal and charismatic traditions emphasise the continuing gifts in ; Reformed and others read the offices as the permanent equipping ministries of the church. Both agree on their purpose: to build up the body.
07Where Christ is
Christ appears as the ascended conqueror in . The psalm describes a king who goes up in triumph and shares the spoils, and Paul applies it to Christ's ascension, which is the basis of the gifts in the church. He is the head who gives growth to the body (). He is the pattern for forgiveness, for love and for self-giving: God in Christ forgave, and Christ loved us and gave himself as a fragrant offering (-). This sacrificial language recalls the offerings of Leviticus and the servant of .
In 5:25-32 Christ is the husband of the church. He gave himself for her, cleanses her by the washing of water with the word, and presents her radiant. The picture draws on the Old Testament marriage imagery of God and Israel (; ) and the church as bride in and 21:2. Paul calls it a profound mystery, and what he says about marriage is shaped by what he sees in Christ.
In 6:10-17 the armour is Christ's own. In the LORD puts on righteousness as a breastplate and salvation as a helmet, and in the Messiah is girded with righteousness and faithfulness. Believers put on what the Lord himself wears. The church is described as standing in the strength of the exalted Lord who already rules above all powers ().
08How traditions read it
The household passage () is read in two main ways. Complementarian readers, found among many Reformed, Baptist, Catholic and Orthodox Christians, take 'head' to mean authority and the wife's submission and the husband's sacrificial headship to be distinct callings. Egalitarian readers, found among many Anglican, Methodist, Pentecostal and other Christians, take 'head' to mean source or union, point to the opening call for mutual submission in , and read the passage as transforming the contemporary structure towards equality. All sides agree that the husband's duty is love like Christ's, which excludes domination and abuse.
09Review questions
- How does the word 'therefore' in connect to , and what five ways of 'walking' organise the second half?
- What is the sevenfold basis of unity in , and what does say is the purpose of the gifts?
- What differences between and do scholars discuss, and what explanations do they offer?
- How does Paul describe the old and new self in , and what specific commands follow?
- What parts of the armour of God come from Isaiah, and what does the choice of that background say about who wears it first?
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- Ephesians, Epistle to
- Faith
- Holiness
- Sin
- Anger
- Bands
- Blind
- Bond
- Calling
- Child
- Communion
- Conversation
- Elder
- Evangelist
- Gift
- Gospels
- Hope
- Kingly office of Christ
- Man
- Church
- Solomon, Song of
- Marriage
- Mystery
- Blemish
- Covetousness
- Darkness
- Drunk
- Fear of the Lord the
- Fruit
- Hymn
- Idolatry
- Kingdom of God
- Prayer
- Wife
- Wine
- Armour
- Bless
- Tychicus
- Ambassador
- Breastplate
- Chain
- Colossians, The Epistle To The
- Daemon
- Dart
- Eye
- Father
- Firebrand
- Gospel
- Helmet
- Luke, Gospel according to
- Minister
- Principality
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